I was asked a few months ago by our local Charlotte librarian, Margaret, to facilitate a book discussion group. The book was "right up my alley! It was Ram Dass and Mirabai Bush's new book, Walking Each Other Home: Conversations on Loving and Dying. I was delighted to be asked and looked forward to the warmth of the small group gatherings on the four wintery Monday mornings of January. When I ...
The (Heart)Beat Goes On…
An email came in from California with a request for a copy of Vigil. How I love finding those requests in my "in box!" They always leave me wondering... How did they hear of Vigil? From where does their interest come? Are they a caregiver, or a hospice volunteer? Do they share my passion for quality, whole-person care for all at the end of life? May Vigil inspire them to keep the subject of dying ...
As a Beautiful Old Soul Left, a New Year Began
The lovely hand I am holding on this web page's banner belonged to a beloved life-long friend of my mother. Elizabeth was a classy woman, always bedecked in a stylish hat to go with whatever she was wearing. She and Mother were known for their hats! Beyond that, Elizabeth was gentle, kind, unassuming woman with a smile and a laugh always at the ready... truly a joy to all. She was as capable of ...
Reflecting Back on the Influence of Nursing on my Life
1964 is the year ... my graduation from Jeanne Mance School of Nursing here in Burlington, VT. Over fifty years have passed and now, as I reflect back while preparing my remarks for a keynote speech at Norwich University's School of Nursing, I have become acutely aware of how vast the influence of nursing has been on my life. While bedside nursing has not been a part of my life for many years, the ...
Dark turns to light…
As we wend our way from January through February, and the light of each day slowly lengthens, spirits lift and we look forward to the new life that will soon be stirring under the soil. What a great time to curl up with a good book. There are some outstanding publications related to life's final journey that are being published. Let me share a few that stand out for me. Koshin Paley Ellison's ...
A New Journey
A NEW JOURNEY... How interesting… the similar spelling of the words journey and journal. I looked up their derivation and it was a shared origin – the French word “jour”, meaning day, with journal originally meaning to record each day. While I don’t “record” daily, my journals line two shelves in my ”sanctuary.” They are my treasures. Going back fifty years, they hold many memories, concerns, ...